John Gray said, “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus”. I have to admit that the differences and differences between boys and girls in the brain circuits of many things are really not a single star.
Take the matter of sex
After a hearty “exercise”, girls are often unfinished and want to be gentler, but boys’ desires drop to the bottom in an instant, and they look like they have no desires, don’t pick me up.
Many female fans have complained:
> Why does her boyfriend act like he was born without love after having sex?
> I still want it, but he doesn’t give it, does it mean that he doesn’t love me anymore?
> Others can be cloudy and rainy all day, why can’t he?
Of course, there are also male researchers who reluctantly asked: “Why can my girlfriend have a second time right after it’s over?”
Don’t panic, the reason why there are such obvious differences between boys and girls after the incident is because of the “unexpected period”~
Why do boys look like Buddhas after ejaculation?
The human sexual response cycle is divided into four phases: excitation, duration, orgasm, and resolution.
When you are having sex, a large amount of happiness source will be secreted in the brain – dopamine, dopamine activates the reward circuit, which will make you want to be happy all the time, and always want to be happy.
After the boys ejaculate, the secretion of dopamine decreases, and the prolactin, which can inhibit the secretion of gonadotropin, increases greatly, and begins to inhibit the excitement, so the boys enter the refractory period (belonging to the extinction period).
So, if you find that your boyfriend is “as lewd as a devil beforehand, and as holy as a Buddha afterward”, it’s not that he is pretending to be cold, nor that he is ruthless (scumbags are excluded), but that he has “escaped into the empty door”~
Why do boys look like Buddhas after ejaculation?
The human sexual response cycle is divided into four phases: excitation, duration, orgasm, and resolution.
When you are having sex, a large amount of happiness source will be secreted in the brain – dopamine, dopamine activates the reward circuit, which will make you want to be happy all the time, and always want to be happy.
After the boys ejaculate, the secretion of dopamine decreases, and the prolactin, which can inhibit the secretion of gonadotropin, increases greatly, and begins to inhibit the excitement, so the boys enter the refractory period (belonging to the extinction period).
So, if you find that your boyfriend is “as lewd as a devil beforehand, and as holy as a Buddha afterward”, it’s not that he is pretending to be cold, nor that he is ruthless (scumbags are excluded), but that he has “escaped into the empty door”~
Even if he longed to fight again, the penis wouldn’t say yes.
Do girls have refractory periods?
After talking about so many men, don’t women have a “refractory period”?
According to the experimental results of Masters and Johnson, girls have the ability to continuously orgasm, so women have no refractory period on the physiological level, and the refractory period is the most obvious stage of the reaction cycle between men and women.
For this result, some people also think that the statement that “women have no refractory period” is because sex books are written by men, and they don’t understand women’s sexual psychology and physiology at all.
Others believe that even if there is no physical existence, there is a similar situation psychologically.
Because the brain structure of men and women is basically the same, and the stimulating effects of hormones are also similar, women may also experience psychological refractory periods during the subsidence period, such as sudden depression, or feelings of shame and guilt after passion.
And even if they have the ability to have continuous orgasms, not every woman can immediately enter the next round of sex right after the end.
Women’s private parts can be painful due to frequent sex in a short period of time, especially when there is no lubrication. If the private parts are too sensitive, even if a woman wants to, she cannot re-enter the great harmony of life after the subsidence period.
To tell the truth, women also need a short rest after orgasm, but the recovery time is faster than that of men.