Falling in love with someone always starts with sexual desire, I don’t know how others are, but I am.
Speaking of which, I think it’s really good to get older. It seems that after the age of 30, you have been tacitly granted the right to talk about sex at various levels. Thanks for the age.
It seems to me that people may use all sorts of human inventions to gloss over their love response, but the core factor is sexual attraction. I am not a rational person at all. Many people have read my articles and said that I think clearly. I don’t know whether being transparent is equal to being rational, but I don’t think I am a rational person.
My brain is crazy, every time I fall in love with someone, it is because of the most direct sensory factors, dopamine, adrenaline, hormones, that remind me that I am in love with the person in front of me. The hair on the legs, the voice of speech, the body temperature, the smell, the hair, the smart head, the bright eyes, the fresh breath, the dry fingers… Many, many details can evoke my desire for a heterosexual, This desire is very direct and passionate, and when my heart is as uncomfortable as a cat scratching, it is love. The only difference is whether you love for a while or love for a long, long time.
Of course, sometimes for girls, too, soft breasts, fleshy belly, fragrant hair, hair that sticks to the neck after sweating, long eyelashes, flickering eyes.. …. I’m really astringent, it’s my low basic moral level and the fear of hurting others, which is barely maintaining my surface calm.
Half insane and half insane, he plunged into the deep water with a dash, ignoring it, cramping and peeling. This kind of love method has not suffered too much loss in the relationship between men and women. It has nothing to do with me at all. I can only say that luck is okay.
Why does love only have sexual desire? My limited thinking ability can only draw this conclusion: It is not because sexual desire is easy to obtain, but because sexual desire is not easy to obtain, that there are so many, so long, so diverse literary works, film and television works are against Go over and over and over and over again depicting love and sex.
For a person with a normal mind, sexual desire is not easy to obtain, and sex is even more difficult to obtain. It has nothing to do with itself, and it carries a lot of added value on its back. Just like the function of the house is not just for living.
Not to mention the social procedures before sex and the risks behind sex, even if we only discuss the biological level, the body will recognize the body, just like people recognize the bed, just like many machines can only replace the original parts.
Like a puppy recognizing its owner, like a butterfly identifying a sweet flower, like an ant walking back to the ant’s nest, unique symbols mark the object of sexual desire, and some even have exclusiveness, making sex even more difficult.
In fact, spending time discussing love and sex is the most unrealistic behavior, but the most attractive attention is directly reflected in the changes in page views. It can be seen that human beings themselves are full of desire to explore feelings and sex. and desire to acquire.
It is a pity that our education did not teach us how to know ourselves, nor how to know others, and before we knew it, we neither regarded ourselves nor others as people. When people are no longer people, people have become objects and carriers, then what’s the point of talking about love and sexuality? It itself is two kinds of substances that can be linked together only as a high-level human being. Without the consciousness of being a “person”, it is impossible to distinguish the difference between “generating sexual desire” and “generating sexual desire for whom”, let alone ” The difference between venting sexual desire” and “enjoying sexual desire”.
Of course I’ve always believed that sexuality is beautiful. Whether it’s been realized, or what you thought but didn’t realize, or realized what’s gone now, it’s all beautiful. I enjoy this subtle process of sexual desire, whether it is ultimately “satisfied” or not.
A human body can mobilize the body to feel hard, hot and moist just because the brain searches and sorts out some fragmented information of another human body in the cortex and prefrontal lobes. , music, paintings, etc. The process is truly beautiful and mesmerizing every time I think about it.
I can’t say “pure love should only have sexual desire”, nor can I say “love is a high-level emotion of human beings”, I can only accept the reality that I am an animal, and then forgive my brain and go To express my sexuality, to forgive my fearlessness, to bear my stupidity.