Men’s spirit of breaking the casserole and asking to the end is really disappointing. Where does this habit come from? After entering a relationship, women will not ask men’s past to the bottom of it.
However, men try their best to get women’s “confessions”. Why is this?
First, this just proves that men are no less jealous than women. People who think that jealousy is a female “patent” are overestimating men. In fact, male jealousy is also worth seeing!
Second, men like to ask women for “confessions”, in addition to being jealous, they also have a strong desire for monopoly. He is still not satisfied with the current state of possessing “her”, and he thinks that he should also monopolize the past her.
Once this possessiveness is high, even if a woman is close to a family friend, he will feel useless, and even wants to possess her every minute and every second.
This kind of psychological situation is too serious, it will become like Darrendio’s novel “The Triumph of Death”, and they will occupy each other forever in the form of mutual sacrifice.
Second, men like to ask women for “confessions”, in addition to being jealous, they also have a strong desire for monopoly. He is still not satisfied with the current state of possessing “her”, and he thinks that he should also monopolize the past her.
Once this possessiveness is high, even if a woman is close to a family friend, he will feel useless, and even wants to possess her every minute and every second.
This kind of psychological situation is too serious, it will become like Darrendio’s novel “The Triumph of Death”, and they will occupy each other forever in the form of mutual sacrifice.
Third, there is a wonderful idea in a man’s heart, that is, he always wants to try whether he has the right to ask her. Women are different about this.
Once a woman has a boyfriend, she will begin to pay attention to his present and future, but does not care much about his past.
Advise all women, it is best to avoid excessive “frankness”, unless you have “amazing” experience, otherwise, when a man is “tortured”, you might as well pretend to be shy and say to him “…you are The first man I really fell in love with!
Women are more tolerant of men. Because the social habit of not paying much attention to men’s “games” has been subconsciously accepted by her.
However, the society’s debauchery and indiscretion towards women cannot be condoned. Influenced, even some self-proclaimed progressive and trendy men still “care” about this in their hearts, so that when a man reaches the stage of looking for a future partner, he starts to ask women questions.
At times like this, some men just ask roughly. However, there are some men who will relentlessly ask questions. It depends on the character of the man who is questioning.
If it is a gloomy man, it will be enough for you! He will entangle you like a snake. After you tell him something, he will ask another question. After you answer, he asks a third question… Just like that, he will bombard you with fatigue.
The so-called “Answer to Troubles” in the newspapers often appear with the headline “Should I tell him about the past?” If you speculate from the above examples, you should know that it is best not to tell him.
In fact, the ideal situation is to tell him everything frankly, and then marry him after he fully understands it.
But then again, the reality is unsatisfactory. Some men will walk away after hearing your confession. So, didn’t you fall short of success?
Even if he didn’t care about it at the time, after a few years, if he asks you to settle the old account, you will have a painful disaster for a lifetime.
On the surface, men are very high-sounding, saying, “I won’t care about those things with you…”, so that you are forced to “shake” the little things about sesame seeds. However, when he gets drunk, or doesn’t feel useful, he’ll bring up these things and ask you for guilt.
From this point of view, it is better not to be too frank with him, otherwise, he will become an “untimely bomb”, and I don’t know when it will explode!
Therefore, I advise all women, it is best to avoid excessive “frankness”, unless you have “amazing” experience, otherwise, when a man is “tortured”, you might as well pretend to be shy and say to him “… …you were the first man I really fell in love with!”
Sometimes, men “torture” you just to hear this sentence!
“I’ve been in love with a man for the first time in my life, how can I be so madly in love? Even I was surprised…” I believe that there is no word that can be called more than this one. The man feels elated.
Hearing your words, he will cheer up, like a baby at your mercy, because “proving what he wants to believe” is a great thing.