Everyone longs for love, some are unrequited love, some are very in love. Love can bring sweetness, warmth, and care, but it can also have some negative effects.
Everyone longs for love, some are unrequited love, some are very in love. Love can bring sweetness, warmth, and care, but it can also have some negative effects.
1. Love is addictive
Why is it that falling into a new relationship can make you feel like a fairy? Scientific research provides a reasonable explanation for this.
Scientists specializing in MRIs at the Albert Einster College in New York City scanned the brains of experimenters and found that the nervous system in the brain that is stimulated during a romantic relationship is the same substance that stimulates the nervous system after taking cocaine. So sometimes people who are in love will think that they are “addicted” to the other half.
2. Love makes people stupid
I often hear people say that “people in love have zero IQ”. I used to think it was an exaggeration, but it’s actually true. A study published in the 2013 edition of the Annals of Medicine “Emotions and Triggers” showed that people who are in a relationship have more difficulty concentrating on the work they need to do than those who are not in a relationship, and that the level of passion in a relationship is related to whether it can focus. The difficulty of the work is directly proportional. Although we don’t know exactly how love works to create chaos in the brain, it is certain that maintaining a balanced relationship between reason and passion is the key to long-lasting love.
3. Love makes people lose their minds
Everything in the early stages of a love affair is so intoxicating, scholars at the University of Pisa in Italy found that falling in love can make people subject to a coercive disordered biochemical influence, which ultimately leads to a reduction in the ability to discriminate.
Studies have shown that the first six months of a relationship will generally lower serotonin, a neurotransmitter that controls rational thinking, and induce mild obsessive-compulsive neurosis. This may explain why you are obsessed with him from morning till night.
Love is beautiful. When you are snuggling with someone you love, what you want to do most is to stop time. At this time, you don’t have any troubles, and everything in the world has nothing to do with you. However, while we enjoy the beauty of love, we must also minimize its harm. Only love that is more happy than painful is worth it.