1. Know how to raise sexual fantasies at the right time
Step 1: Let your lover know what you want, or write down what’s on your mind with a note, or try the bookmarking technique: In a book of descriptive fantasies, find a scene in which you want to “reenact” and then Mark the section with a red pen and place the book by his bed.
Step 2: Before setting the time for sex, tell him to read the chapters so that he has enough time to fully understand the content.
2. Expand the space for making love
If the bed is the only place you two have sex, you may miss out on the high level of sexual pleasure you get from having sex elsewhere in the house.
Steps1: Starting in the kitchen, consider taking advantage of all the delicious food in the cupboards and refrigerators, which may lead you to a state you have never been to before.
Step 2: Repeat in each room. If you have already experienced the taste of having sex on a rocking chair in the bedroom, you can enter a deeper level of sex.
3. Improve stroking skills
After several years of married life, touching a lover often can consolidate the relationship between the two parties more often than making love more often. Experts say: “In addition to sex, many couples rarely touch each other affectionately, and they may feel awkward about it.” Improving touch skills is to remove all obstacles to good sex.
4. Explore overlooked sexual opportunities
Your time is often occupied by work, children, and entertainment, and it seems that it is not enough. But sex experts point out that the lack of undisturbed non-sleep time for couples to go to bed together may be part of the problem, mainly because couples are not using their time well enough.
Don’t let children, life dilute your sexual desire, life must continue, and passion cannot be given up either.
If ten minutes are available, have a quick sex. It may sound rushed, but having sex in a hurry isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact, many couples appreciate the thrill of fast sex, and can create a feeling of being a secret between the two, especially before friends and relatives come for dinner.
5. Don’t miss a fleeting moment
Many people get excited at home, but on the way to the bedroom, they are always distracted by a lot of things, and they soon lose their energy. Experts point out that if you want to have more and better sex, act immediately when aroused.