How much do you know about female orgasm? Many men only care about how long they have had sex and whether they can enjoy it, but it is often easy to ignore the feelings of their partners.
Men’s orgasms are often marked by ejaculation, but girls’ orgasms are not necessarily synchronized with men’s. So how can you tell if the other half has an orgasm? To judge whether the other half has an orgasm, you must first know what an orgasm is.
Female orgasms are generally divided into two categories: clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms (or G-spot orgasms).
For women, the most common way to achieve orgasm is to physically stimulate the clitoris; general statistics show that 70-80% of women need to stimulate the outside of the clitoris in this way (stimulation sources such as fingers, tongue, etc. clitoral stimulation) to orgasm, but for some women, indirect clitoral stimulation is also sufficient for orgasm, such as vaginal intercourse.
The sensation of a woman’s orgasm will vary depending on the intensity of the stimulation, as will the frequency of orgasms and the stimulation required to achieve orgasm. The reason women are more likely to have a clitoral orgasm is that the clitoral head alone may have more than 8,000 sensory nerve endings; this is more than the average male’s glans, or even the entire penis. Since the clitoris and the penis are biologically homologous organs, the two have the same ability to receive sexual stimulation.
The G-spot that fascinates many men .
The idea that the vagina can produce orgasms is still controversial, not only because of the low density of nerve endings in the vagina, but also because the location of the G-spot cannot be determined consistently—the G-spot does not exist in some girls, and there are Research points out that the G-spot is simply an extension of other tissues or organs, such as the clitoris or Skene’s glands. In January 2012, the Journal of Sexual Medicine published a literature review of studies that have attempted to prove the existence of the G-spot over the years, so the authors of the review wrote: “Reporting of the G-spot in the public media It can lead people to believe that it provides great sexual stimulation, but it can lead people away from the truth.”
American sexologist Kinsey once proposed that the vagina has no nerve endings, and only the clitoris can bring orgasm. This statement still has some influence. The French gynecologist Odile Buisson mentioned in an article in the “Journal of Sexual Medicine” that the invisible part of the clitoris is closely connected to the front wall of the vagina, and it is almost impossible to stimulate the vagina without Stimulates the clitoris, so a vaginal orgasm may be essentially a clitoral orgasm.
A woman's orgasm is not necessarily achieved through sex.
While having sex with a partner, men spend an average of about 4 minutes each to orgasm; in the same situation, women take 10-20 minutes to orgasm. By contrast, women masturbated to orgasm in much less time: about 4 minutes per session on average.
Scholars noted: “Many couples are stuck on the futile idea that ‘climax should only be achieved by having sex (vaginal intercourse)’…so much so that the term ‘foreplay’ implies that it is only a ‘pre-event’ Get ready’…because women have a harder time orgasm during vaginal sex, they’re more likely to fake an orgasm.
The conclusion of a study by foreign sexologists is exemplified: “Only about 25% of girls can achieve orgasm during vaginal sex, but 81% of girls can achieve orgasm during oral sex (cunnilingus).”
How to better stimulate the clitoris?
There are many ways to stimulate the clitoris, such as rubbing with your hands and squeezing lightly. However, no matter rubbing or squeezing, the force should not be too strong, and the attention should be gentle. Many women’s clitoris is very sensitive. Sucking through mouth or toys, pressing through body friction, vibrating vibrators, active or passive friction during sex, etc.
However, if the clitoris is stimulated at a high frequency for a long time, it may increase the threshold of orgasm. Just like the glans, once the threshold gets higher, he needs more stimulation to ejaculate. (But the normal frequency of using small toys will not cause this problem, unless you continue to stimulate for seven or eight hours a day, most people will not do this)
When you have a full understanding of women’s orgasms, you can better judge whether women have orgasms when they are in love. Of course, the most direct method is the in-depth communication between the two sides.