Marriage is an art of communication. If a man can talk to and coax more with women in his spare time, or if a woman can understand and understand men, praise his husband more in words, and give him a warm heart with practical actions. Haven, to balance out his frustrations in starting a business, maybe things will be completely different and their marriage will be happier!
Last week at a friend’s reunion, I heard that another friend was divorced. They are a couple worthy of our envy, both of them work in public institutions, and there is also a pair of twins. They can be said to have a successful career and a happy family.
However, the relationship between husband and wife declined sharply because the man quit his job a year ago to start a business. The woman said that men don’t love her as much as before, and they always ignore her when they come home. The man said that the woman was not considerate at all. He spent all day running orders outside, and when he got home, he had to see her cold face and was constantly poured cold water by her.
As a result, both sides gradually began to get tired, and the relationship became detached. In the end, at a family gathering, the woman’s opposition prevented the man from coming down from the stage, and the two parted ways sadly, and this originally beautiful marriage also broke down.
It stands to reason that both men and women are right, but neither of them considers the issue from the other’s standpoint. Marriage is an art of communication. If a man can talk to and coax more with women in his spare time, or if a woman can understand and understand men, praise his husband more in words, and give him a warm heart with practical actions. Haven, to balance out his frustrations in starting a business, maybe things will be completely different and their marriage will be happier!
How should I praise him?
Praising men is an art that women must master in the battle of marriage defense. How to make a man think about going home after work, have no evil thoughts when facing other women, and really listen to the “pillow wind”, the emphasis is on the word “compliment”.
Compliment is not deceit, nor obedience, nor loss of self, but a kind of love from the heart for a man, the best way to share the pressure of a man, and a good medicine to promote the harmony and stability of the relationship between husband and wife.
How should I pamper her?
Doting on women is a magic weapon for men to maintain their marriage relationship. Almost all women in the world have a soft spot for the word “favorite”, and there is no woman who doesn’t want her man to spoil her like a treasure in the palm of her hand.
To spoil a woman is to eat three meals a day, never get tired of it, and even an indispensable part of life. As a man, pampering women is an important task.
Men need to know the art of deviousness and not act recklessly. When faced with various frictions in married life, a man might as well say something nice first, do something that can give him extra points, and make the woman happy, and the rest will naturally be easier to handle.
In a word, men rely on praise, women rely on favor, this is an art in the relationship between the two sexes. Smart women should learn to use appreciative eyes and words to develop the potential of men, and to hold men just right, and ultimately benefit from women themselves; a man’s favor is a woman’s best cosmetic, under a man’s pity, even a face Wrinkled women are miraculously young and beautiful.