In my understanding, sex toys are a powerful tool to solve physiological needs, especially vibrators. I have been single for 2 and a half years, and my previous relationship was severely hit. My boyfriend and my cousin had sex several times during this period, and although both of them said they were no longer in touch, I couldn’t face this fact.
After breaking up, my ex entangled many times, and I almost agreed to get married, but it was difficult to get through. Now that I have gone to work in Spain, I can talk about this experience calmly, and my broken heart is almost healed, but I just haven’t found a partner I like.
It is impossible to say that there is no sexual need. There are always a few days every month when I really want to have sex, I can have sex in my dreams, I can clip my legs, and I occasionally masturbate with my hands. One of my sisters said that you can go to a nightclub to pick up boys and take safety measures. It’s not a big problem. It’s more reliable than making an appointment online. But I have a mental cleanliness and a slow heat. I can’t go to bed with a man I don’t love because of my physical needs. My ex and I have been dating for more than half a year. After the relationship is stable, we sleep together. So, no one-night stand.
I have watched the videos of sex toys reviewed by YouTube. Since I have never used them, I am inevitably a little anxious, such as whether they will become addicted, whether they will harm the body, how to maintain hygiene, etc. . . . Later, I bought a vibrator on Amazon, and it really relieved the days when my cravings were the strongest every month. Wouldn’t it be enough to relieve it? It’s not that I can’t live without a man. I feel more and more that it’s right that I don’t go on a date for a one-night stand. Nowadays, people are too messy, unsafe and unsanitary. Having sex toys is so convenient. Even if I have a boyfriend in the future, I am not afraid to tell him generously: “I use sex toys because of my self-esteem and self-love.