The person you like will not necessarily stay by your side, only the person who loves you will accompany you for the rest of your life. No one wants to change his mind on purpose. A person, when he loves you, really loves you, but when he doesn’t love you, he really doesn’t love you anymore. When he loves you, there is no way to pretend not to love you; similarly, when he no longer loves you, there is really no way to pretend to love you.
Don’t let your love wait too long, always thinking that we love someone very much and will love for a lifetime, wait. Until the sea changes color, the sea withers and the rocks rot. When everyone tells us not to be obsessed, he is actually not as good as you think, but we would rather believe in the fairy tale we weave for ourselves than what the people around us say.
I always thought that when we fell in love with someone, we had to keep our hearts the same all our lives, and we always thought that we could wait until the fateful fate to meet again. Thousands of miles of marriage are tied by a thread. When the clouds and mists clear, when the two intersecting lines are staggered, we know that we are just fans of the authorities.
We always think that we love someone so much, that we will do anything for him, and that we love against a gorgeous background until you turn around with a lonely face. Whoever does not love first, whoever leaves first. I always feel that the first person to turn around is the best. Watching the person we love the most go away, we thought it was a lifetime. In this lifetime, it’s just him. Except for him, we will never love anyone again.
My heart has become numb to my feelings, my tears have run out, and there is still something I should be waiting for. Some things are not as fragile as I think. Ask, if you lose him, will you really not be able to live? Maybe it will be for a second, but ten days or a month, a year or more, suddenly one day you suddenly wake up and you will say, Why, I used to be so unable to let go.
Actually, it’s not that we can’t let go. What we can’t let go is just a feeling, that kind of unwillingness. Why didn’t you love me first when I still loved you. Why did you love me so much back then, but now you have become so indifferent. When we asked these words in our hearts, in fact, we no longer simply love this person, we just fell in love with our own unwillingness. In their bones, no one is willing to be worse than others, and everyone hopes that everything about themselves is beautiful and unparalleled.
When we fall in love with someone, we actually fall in love with a feeling that only he can give. If you don’t love someone, it’s because the feeling is gone. If you don’t love it, you don’t love it anymore, and it’s useless to force it.
If I ask you, what will you miss about the person you once loved, it will definitely not be a pledge, some are actually more small details, coaxing you, caring for you, loving you…
We would say that we are waiting for someone, but in fact, we are not waiting for this person anymore, it is just a feeling, those who are unwilling to be here suddenly leave when they say leave. If he comes back again, will you still love him and tolerate him as always? Don’t say yes so easily, say it with your heart, will you really?
No one wants to change his mind on purpose. When a person loves you, he really loves you, but when he doesn’t love you, he really doesn’t love you anymore. When he loves you, there is no way to pretend he doesn’t love you, and similarly, when he doesn’t love you, he really has no way to pretend to love you…
So, why not choose to let it go, because we want our own happiness. Love while you can, don’t let your love wait too long, don’t let your happiness wait too long.